Recently I have been helping plan a huge wedding for my brother and sister in law. It has caused stress, fighting, and the overall situation had made me feel very down about myself. I felt like no one cared. All the groomsmen and bridesmaids liked my Brother's other sister better. She is skinny, pretty, and outgoing. I've always had a crush on my Brother's friend, Dallas. He happened to be my escort to the wedding which meant we spent majority of our time posing for pictures, and dancing together. At the reception he had a little to drink, so he had loosened up a little. I told him we should go in the photo booth so we did. We waited in line and started just talking about life. He gave me advice on my whole moving across the country situation, because he had done something very similar his freshman year of highschool. We talked for a while. We took our photos and got out. We then had to do a bridal party dance, so we slow danced (which he taught me how to do) We were dancing and I was like "should we interlock fingers? Is that how it's supposed to be?" And he goes "sure if you want. I mean, I'm not that romantically into you, but don't worry, sweetie, one day you'll find a man" at another point I was talking to him about how I didn't know anyone there and he said "life lesson. All these people. They don't matter. You are never going to see them EVER again. They aren't important. So don't worry." About an hour later he had to leave for his flight. When he left he goes "I'm leaving" and gave me a hug, and I was like "thanks for talking to me" and he goes "awe. Don't thank me. You know, anytime. You're my favorite" then gave me a hug and a wink and walked away. I was so sad he had left, but I had a great time. No matter how down you feel. Someone cares. Someone always cares. Even people you may not know too well, or you wouldn't expect to care. Be yourself.
Xx, Farrah